Summary You know the parent to-do list. Make lunches, check homework, get kids to practice. But what about your partner list? Like spending a little romantic time with your spouse? Well, studies show parenting can get in the way of your love life, but there is some good news! There are simple strategies to help bring back that lovin' feeling. Featuring registered sex therapist Joan Marsman. Reality Check: Zen vs. Mess Benita Rowley talks about balancing the Zen décor she wants versus the mess she and her young daughter live with and the benefits it brings. How to: Become a babysitter Today's how-to follows a teen as she takes the St. John's Ambulance babysitter course. Here are three key points to bear in mind: Have your child take a babysitting course provided by a reputable agency like St. John's Ambulance. Have your tween babysit younger siblings or practice with children of relatives. They could become a mother's helper initially, before venturing out on a solo job. Tell your tween to learn everything they can about the individual child they will be babysitting; peanut allergies, asthma or any other condition a child may have must be clearly identified. Video Diary: A Filipino beauty pageant contestant - the Verendia Family There are many ways that immigrants stay in touch with the country and culture they left behind. In Kris Verendia's case, she reconnected with her heritage when she entered a Filipino beauty pageant. We lent Kris our video camera to take us behind the scenes as she explores both her culture and her sense of self.

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